1-2-3 Inner Game
- Dhiren P. Harchandani
- Dec 4
- 3 min read
Welcome to 1-2-3 Inner Game, your weekly hit of actionable strategies to achieve a high-performing, healthy, and thriving life.
Today's Highlights
Slow is Smooth, Smooth is Fast
1-2-3 Inner-Game
How to Find Your Purpose? A Path to Personal Growth
Brain Candy
What's Fueling My Curiosity
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Lately I’ve been watching founders, teams, and even parents make the same mistake Navy SEALs warn against:
They move fast… and everything gets slower.
The SEAL mantra says it best:
“Slow is smooth, smooth is fast.”
People rush through decisions, sprint through conversations, and barrel through emotions, and then wonder why everything feels chaotic, inconsistent, or full of unnecessary friction.
Here’s the real insight:
When you rush, you create rework. When you move deliberately, you create flow.
And when things flow, everything accelerates.
This is true in business, leadership, and relationships:
In strategy, rushing the “how” creates messy execution.
In communication, rushing conversations creates misunderstandings that shouldn’t exist.
In leadership, rushing decisions destroys trust and burns energy.
In relationships, rushing emotions turns small issues into big ones.
Speed isn’t the goal. Clarity is. Clarity creates smoothness. Smoothness creates speed. Speed is the byproduct.
Don’t rush like a rookie. Move clean. Move calm. Clean and calm wins.
Here’s the shift: Move with intention now so everything compounds later.

If you’re an entrepreneur, or know one who would benefit from creating clarity, aligning their team, building momentum, and growing their business with the Bloom Growth system, I’d love to connect.
Where do you feel the most pressure to move fast?
Strategy
Execution
Team Decisions
Relationships and Conversations
Here's some Inner Game wisdom to chew on this week
1 question to punch your brain this week
Are you making decisions from clarity, or from convenience? (Click to Tweet)
2 questions (and answers) from me
What’s the real enemy of good decisions? Not fear. Haste. Most bad choices come from refusing to sit in uncertainty long enough. (Click to Tweet)
How do you know you’re making the right call? When the decision shrinks your anxiety but expands your responsibility. (Click to Tweet)
3 insights for the Inner Game Junkies
Indecision Is the Most Expensive Decision Delay costs more than mistakes. Mistakes teach, delay multiplies confusion. (Click to Tweet)
A Clear No Is More Powerful Than a Hesitant Yes Most regrets come from half-hearted commitments, not bold refusals. (Click to Tweet)
Your Environment Makes More Decisions Than You Do If you don’t design your surroundings, they’ll quietly design your outcomes. (Click to Tweet)

How to Find Your Purpose? A Path to Personal Growth
In this episode, we break down how your mindset shapes your life, either driving you forward or holding you back. We explore the value of a growth mindset, how to see challenges as opportunities, and how to not just adapt to change but thrive in it. Join us to learn how to unlock your potential and rethink how you approach life’s obstacles.
Available now on Apple Podcasts and everywhere you get your podcasts
Brain Candy Tweets That Made Me Think, Laugh, or Go ‘Huh, Interesting!
Inspiration rewards those who stay long enough to meet it.
A tired life can feel like a tired mind. Change the rhythm and the feeling shifts.
What's Fueling My Curiosity
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I'm rooting for you to continue crushing it! 💪🏼
Dhiren

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